Well, what a week.
High points:
1. ANZAC ball - boogying, posh frocks, eye candy everywhere, balloon balancing and fun!
2. Friends coming over on Tuesday evening
3. Excitement at mad sandstorm
Low points:
1. The man reasserting his D@%ckwad nature. I mean WTF, how confusing can one person be and do they not realise the head f&ck they create!!
2. The hangover I will have bukra!
So in one week the man (fickle Kuwaiti) has gone from "your so good" , "Kuwait will be worse off without you" to not even returning my texts. I have a feeling a scrawny blonde may be involved and quite frankly the fact that it may have been lauded over me by both of them may actually makes me feel physically sick. I turned up to a gathering at his on Sunday eve (at his invitation I may add) and a comment was made by her infront of me that implied something had gone on that afternoon - she's been one of his floozies in the past. I am very naive and thick and didn't cotton on about what was implied until the next day- GIT!!
However, he invited me over and was very touchy feelly with me (new but usual development over the past 3 months, even infront of his mates) when she'd left. WTF?????
Please guys can someone explain what the hell goes on in men's heads cos I firmly don;t understand how one minute you can be very keen then the next be an ignorant git!
ARGH!!!
Right excuse spelling as I am a little fragile tonight!!
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Men tend to be ignorant gits because it's in their nature to do so. They do it to attract attention, to simply make sure that those they like actually notice them. Sorta like playing hard to get? In this case, it could be he's trying to catch your eye, to show how important you are to him? That could account for him being touchy feely with you in front of his mates too.
As for the blonde, the comment made by her implied something had gone on that afternoon. What if she just wants to place that image in your mind? Since nothing was said directly that you could act on with him being there.
Try not to be cynical about him and his actions. I know it's hard to, because i do it myself, but it helps to be a little optimistic now and then. I dont know about you, but i develop a pessimistic approach because i believe if it does turn out to be true, it wont hurt me as much. Setting yourself up for disappointment as one would say. If you really think about it, its not worth it.
Anyway, why don't you talk to him? about the not texting back, and about the blonde.
sp4rkster: Your words are wise and I have heeded. Had lovely weekend in the end!
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